Practical Wisdom for Your Journey
15 Lessons Learned From Watching My Dad
Next week will mark one month since my dad passed away. I leave to fly to Ontario from BC early in the week to spend time with my family and celebrate Dad’s life on November 10th.
Was it the Worst Day Ever?
The poem captures a worldview that is quite common. What you need to do, however, is to keep reading right to the end.
How to Transition from Survivor to Thriver
Two very different traveling companions will find you or be found by you on your grief journey. One is called Survivor. The other one is called Thriver.
Reflecting on My Dad’s Life and Legacy
I want to tell you about my dad who breathed his last breath on October 11, 2023.
10 Quotes to Ponder While Grieving
Words can calm our hearts, comfort our troubled souls, and provide some light for our path.
Packing Your Backpack for the Grief Journey
When you go backpacking out into the wilderness, you carefully plan and prepare, then go on your trip. When we go on a grief journey, it’s usually something forced upon us.
The Kind of Time That Heals
As time slips by, does it result in the healing you are hoping for while grieving? Definitely not. Time alone is not sufficient to heal the broken heart.
How Prepared Are You For Your Next Storm?
Is it possible to prepare for a storm before it happens? For sure it is but let’s look deeper at why that matters so much and how you can be prepared for your next storm.
What To Do When Your Identity Has Been Lost
How do you find a new identity after you’ve lost the one you had? Here are some actions to take to restore a lost identity after a loss.
Why You Need Empathetic Friends & How to Find Them
On a daily basis we need friends who will witness the story we have to tell. It can be the difference between getting stuck or moving forward.
Three Guiding Principles to Use When Creating a Grief Model
When you go on a journey, you usually have some idea where you’re going.
Lessons on Grief from the School of Abraham Lincoln
You can learn to grief entirely by your own experience or with some help from others. Abraham Lincoln is a historical figure who became a mentor for me.
The Power and Place of Purpose
Among the disruptions to life after a loss is the impact you often feel in the area of your purpose.
Five Practices to Keep You Moving When Grieving
Grief is not a one size fits all process. It varies in intensity between people and depends on the nature of the loss.
Three Ways to Grow Your Adaptability
The question is, how do you treat adaptability as your friend not as your foe when you’re on the tumultuous roller coaster of grief?
Holding the Hand of Grief & Life at the Same Time
You give yourself a gift when you are able to embrace life while still grieving. It starts small, first but eventually becomes ever larger.
The Positive Impact of a Moral Compass
A personal moral compass is a resiliency muscle well worth strengthening to help you heal after a loss.
The Four Tasks of Grief
Part of learning to dance with adversity and loss is to find hope’s pathway after your loss so you can grieve thoroughly and eventually find that place of healing.
Three Keys to Practicing Healthy Self-Care
Sometimes you practice self-care because you have to. Other times, you practice self-care because you chose to.
Live Courageously in the Face of Fear
If you too have experienced bouts of fear, you’re not alone. It’s a normal response to loss and is triggered by uncertainty, loss of control, loneliness and vulnerability.