I'm pleased to announce that I was married to my friend Jean on May 5th!

Will you be a passive participant with grief or will you find a way to be an active participant with the grief?

One of the challenges you will face while grieving or navigating any difficult transition is the inner drive to keep going .

One key element to my grieving journey was the introduction of new ideas when I needed them the most.

There is a perspective that will increase your chances of being able to navigate loss and adversity better than you might first think.

Wise and reassuring words give us comfort and help provide language for what we’re experiencing.

There is an old story about a king whose people had grown soft and entitled. Dissatisfied with this state of affairs, he wanted to teach them a lesson.

Life includes a series of passages we must navigate throughout life.

One of the qualities needed when facing the hard challenges of life is endurance.

Living has many angles and aspects to it. It includes feeling alive, enjoying beauty, expressing gratitude, & feeling wonder and excitement.

You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think.

As I ponder with you the grief journey, I’m also reflecting on why I write on grief.

Regardless of where you are on your journey — whether your grieving or supporting someone who is, how you think matters.

Sad is the day when we fail to realize the value of going down into our grief.

Some advice I received when grieving was simply this: be kind to yourself.

All that is gold does not glitter, not all those who wander are lost…

Life gives us pain. Our job is to experience it when it gets handed to us. Avoidance of loss has a cost. Having our pain seen and seeing the pain in others is a wonderful medicine for both body and soul.

I have been acquainted with tears for many years now and thought it timely to remind myself of the value of tears today.

If you are grieving right now like I am, the message we need to hear is found in this poem, The Mountain

In the past five weeks, both my father and father-in-law have died. The grief has been real but very different from the grief I experienced when Vicky died.